Throughout my life’s experience, I have come to believe that many of my reactions to people, places and situations have been impacted by previous experience. These reactions may be the result of specific smells, sounds or situations that were associated with some event or person from my past. Consequently, I may find myself reacting in such a way that has little to do with my … [Read more...]
Archives for April 2007
Teachers
Throughout my life, I have experienced many twists and turns. Many times, these twists and turns made little sense to me. Metaphorically speaking, I felt like a pinball ricocheting off a series of disappointments and resentments. This way of relating and reacting to my environment frequently left me feeling helpless. Although I spent much of my time and energy seeking to endure … [Read more...]
Live and Let Live
Recently, I was reminded of a profound concept. Through living, each person encounters various experiences, struggles, disappointments, and opportunities. When these events are encountered, choice becomes the operative mechanism that guides many decisions. Over the course of a person’s life, these decisions can result in choices that I may not value, appreciate, or for that … [Read more...]
Are you lonely tonight?
I have often heard people say, “I just seem to pick people (companions) that are emotionally unavailable”. When I hear them speak of their frustration, I can definitely relate. I remember saying this to some friends some years ago, “If I could only find a woman who was emotionally available, I would be happy. I have come to realize that my interpretation of an emotionally … [Read more...]
Where are You?
Welcome back. I am glad you decided to stop by and rest. I am so happy that I no longer need to measure up to a standard of perfection. I can be satisfied with my best efforts. I may find myself not being able to do much of anything on some days. Sometimes my body tells me to slow down in no uncertain terms, like today. I woke up on Saturday morning with the hint of a sinus … [Read more...]
