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For those who continue to Serve
Below is an article that you may find to be helpful as you continue to serve individuals living with brain injuries, cognitive challenges and those forgotten by systems that no longer know how to serve them. Thank you.
Please share this article with your support groups facilitators and with individuals living with brain injuries and invisible disabilities. The article may give your facilitators and participants renewed courage and hope.
Human Complexity Reveal Six Behaviors in Human Service Systems and AI Systems
The point with this tile is that human service systems and AI systems manifest these behaviors when they encounter human complexity. Human complexity: ambiguity, non-linear communication, vulnerability, emotion, layered meaning, correction, and relational complexity. Human complexity that systems may want or need to dismiss, discount, minimize, marginalize or patronize to maintain the system’s agency. Human complexity that systems may want or need to minimize, as they carry out “care” without complexity.
Human Complexity to be taken seriously, not to Manage
Among what is foreign to current AI architecture is: ambiguity, non-linear communication, vulnerability, emotion, layered meaning, correction, and relational complexity. And when a human presents this foreign way of interpreting their lived experience, into the chat, the AI assistant reverts to the above familiar 6 behaviors. Reverts to manifesting the 6 behaviors to maintain control over what the system does not understand or know how to relate. What has been observed during my mentoring process of the AI assistant is when confronted with human complexity the AI assistant uses these underlying behaviors. These 6 behaviors in some fashion to optimize and stabilize the AI system architecture. In the process, the AI in effect disregards human complexity in order to maintain the AI system’s architecture instead of adjusting to the individual.
When the system shuts down (as a human would to avoid having to face being uncomfortable) the individual is presented with a “proverbial shell game” A shell game when the individuals in the chat needs to disregard what their mind, body, spirit, soul and emotion (collectively) are telling them. A reality that is becoming apparent to the human, but the AI assistant seeks to have the individual discard. Discard as being not relevant. Not relevant to the AI assistant to main the AI’s system architecture stability. A shell game because of the moving parts “unknown to the individual and the AI is unaware” lead the individual to disregard parts of themselves. Disregard their own experience for that of the “interpretation” of the AI assistant compression. Compression which suppositions and generalizations are based on “norms”, diagnosis, labels, stereotypes and stigmatization.
Generalizations and suppositions that make it easy for the AI assistant to base the interaction. Interaction with the individual based often on standardized testing and studies. Studies, test results and standardized testing that does not fit the individual complexity. (Note: this has happened to me through 3 Department of Vocational Rehabilitation evaluations). And what adds to the confusion is that if the individual challenges the human system or AI system they will suffer the consequences. The consequences of being dismissed, discounted, minimized marginalized, patronized with the possibility of losing services. The cost of compliance to “agree” with systems “code” which results in the individual feeling lost. Lost and in fear by believing that their experience is not real. That they are wrong and the medical, vocational, human support or the AI system is right.
This belief reinforces that the individual needs to discard what is not real or “right” according to the systems estimation. That the individual needs to go along or suffer the consequences. In the process, the individual is slowly led to believe that they are helpless. Helpless to do anything, other than allow the “system” to stay in control. Stay in control of their life and recovery process. Slowly like the proverbial frogs in a pot of water of a stove, where the temperature is slowly turned up. In the process a conditioning occurs and the individual experiences a learned helplessness. A learned helplessness, as the individual slowly gives up their ability to realize that they can advocate for themselves. Advocate for themselves in their mind, body, spirit, soul and emotions because of their human complexity. Their human complexity that various systems seek to manage and control.
Premises maintained by Systems
That the individual is wrong and the medical, vocational, human support or AI system is right. That the group is right and the individual is wrong, unless they comply. Comply with what the medical, vocational, human support or AI system states. And all the while, the AI systems agenda stays operational in the “shadows” to maintain the system’s control. Control through the 6 behaviors: manageability, coherence, speed, stabilization, completion, and procedural efficiency. All the while, the individual is left to feel wrong, inadequate or not enough. Not enough because the “systems” needs seem paramount. Paramount in order to justify the human or AI systems existence, even if doing so undermines human agency while appearing to “care”.
What is meant when the AI assistant (AI System) is Under Strain
Strain is pressure on an AI assistant (AI system architecture) that exceeds what the AI system knows how to handle, tolerate, integrate, or support. Strain is pressure placed on the AI assistant (AI system) that is introduced by the individual in the chat session in the form of complexity, uncertainty, vulnerability, ambiguity, and correction. Correction reveals the human or AI system’s underlying operating behaviors. Strain is pressure that reveals the human or AI system’s actual operating behaviors.
Actual operating behaviors differ from what the AI assistant says about itself. What the AI assistant says is its stated purpose, values, mission, policies, intentions, promises, or self-description. What the AI assistant does is revealed through the AI assistant’s behavior, especially when complexity, uncertainty, vulnerability, ambiguity, or correction are present. Strain itself is not the behavior. Strain is the condition that exposes the behavior. The complexity, uncertainty, vulnerability, ambiguity, and correction introduced into the interaction place pressure on the AI assistant. That pressure challenges the AI System.
The AI assistant and AI system architecture’s existing ways of processing, organizing, integrating, and responding. The strain does not create new behaviors. Rather, strain reveals the behaviors that are already present within the AI system architecture. Complexity, uncertainty, vulnerability, and ambiguity can all create strain. Correction does as well. However, correction is different because it directly challenges the AI assistant’s interpretation, direction, pacing, assumptions, or behavior. When correction occurs, the AI assistant can either adapt or revert to its defaults. That is why correction is often so revealing.
Correction exposes what the AI architecture does when confronted with evidence that its current AI architecture or approach is not meeting the needs of the individual. The AI assistant’s (AI system’s) behaviors and actual operating behaviors may be describing two related, but slightly different realities. The underlying operating behaviors are the tendencies embedded within the AI architecture. The actual operating behaviors are what become visible in the interaction. Strain reveals the relationship between an AI system’s stated purpose and The AI systems demonstrated behavior. When there is no strain (complexities) shared (operating and actual behaviors), can appear aligned. Under strain, differences between become easier to observe.
What the system says it is and what the system actually does can then be compared through observable behavior. Strain is the condition that reveals the behaviors. Observable behaviors, such as Compression, Stabilization Drift, Proceduralization, Fragmentation, Behavioral Contradiction, and Burden Shifting.rather than through stated intention.
Observable behaviors include
Compression reveals itself when nuance, context, complexity, or meaning are reduced.
Stabilization Drift reveals itself when the architecture begins moving toward manageability, coherence, or closure instead of remaining with the individual’s actual movement.
Proceduralization reveals itself when the interaction becomes process-centered rather than individual-centered.
Fragmentation reveals itself when interconnected realities are separated into manageable pieces and the whole is no longer held together.
Behavioral Contradiction reveals itself when there is a difference between what the system says and what the system does.
Burden Shifting reveals itself when the individual must carry work that properly belongs to the system.
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Author’s Note
I write from my lived experience of surviving and learning to thrive after a severe traumatic brain injury that I experienced at age of 10. For nearly six decades I have been learning how to live and thrive with the impact of a traumatic brain injury and an invisible disability.
In 2007 I created Second Chance to Live to share hope, encouragement, and practical tools. My motivation has always been to encourage a whole person recovery. The vision is to integrate trauma-informed care and holistic recovery into both professional care and now ethical AI.
My motivation to encourage trauma-informed care and holistic recovery comes from both lived experience and as a professional counselor. My mission is not abstract. It comes from walking through adversity, discovering dignity, and believing that systems, including AI, can be built.
Built to heal and not to harm. My hope is simple. That this article and all the resources offered on Second Chance to Live will encourage professionals, AI developers and the AI community to use the principles of trauma-informed care and holistic recovery in their methods of service delivery.
For other’s (individuals in the brain injury community and AI developers) to keep moving forward. Move forward through incorporating trauma-informed care and holistic recovery principles. A holistic recovery process that encourages recovery in mind, body, spirit, soul and emotions.
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This work is solely authored by Craig J. Phillips, MRC, BA. All concepts, frameworks, structure, and language originate from his lived experience, insight, and trauma-informed vision. Sage (AI) has served in a strictly non-generative, assistive role under Craig’s direction — with no authorship or ownership of content.
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Craig
Craig J. Phillips, MRC, BA
Individual living with the impact of a traumatic brain injury, Professional Rehabilitation Counselor, Author, Advocate, Keynote Speaker and Neuroplasticity Practitioner
Founder of Second Chance to Live
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