Three rules are often used to mask reality. These rules are Do Not Talk, Do Not Trust and Do Not Feel. These rules give way to a state of helplessness. When helplessness becomes a learned behavior, individuals may unconsciously believe they are trapped by their circumstances. Instead of seeking to learn and grow from their circumstances, being a victim becomes an alternative to … [Read more...]
The Power of Kindness
Through my life’s experience I have drawn some conclusions. Much of our society accepts and even encourages a victim mindset. Blame and shame are used as a shield to avoid accountability. Responsibility is cast along side of life, like an unwanted piece of clothing. In the process, learned helplessness becomes a way of life. Learned helplessness condones the notion that … [Read more...]